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Learn the exact framework more than 50,000 people have used to speak their truth in their marriage, get the respect they deserve in their career, set boundaries at home, and increase profit in their business. 

 

 

 

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Learn the exact framework more than 50,000 people have used to speak their truth in their marriage, get the respect they deserve in their career, set boundaries at home, and increase profit in their business. 

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When you join the Intentional Communication Training Program there's no more piecing together random paragraphs from books, quotes, or one off classes and seminars, hoping your interactions change. It's no longer about "knowing" the information, it's about living it, embodying it.

 

The Intentional Communication Training Program is a group coaching program for those who are ready to fix their marriages, feel respected at work, and lead their teams successfully. 

We've helped thousands of our students who are on the verge of divorce, in a toxic work environment, or feeling disconnected from family and friends change their reality and create peace in their everyday lives. 

 

The Intentional Communication Training Program is a group coaching program for those who are ready to change their interactions - the simple way.

We've helped thousands of our students become less reactive in their marriages and within their family unit, more in control of their words in the workplace, and confident in navigating interactions with those they disagree with with ease.

Now, it's your turn.

 

Now, it's your turn.

I've developed the simplest path to having the types of interactions you crave at home and at work - in your most important relationships. I did this so you no longer have the tit for tat types of arguments, the saying things you don't mean and sitting with it feeling bad about what you said and the result for days.

starYou’ve read blogs, books, taken courses, maybe tried hypnosis, gone to counseling, but have struggled with trying to put what you know into practice

starYou wish you could be like those people you see who are so calm and relaxed when they speak, and who seem to never get flustered and always say the right thing, but you don't know how to start

starYour daughter says things to you and you just stand there in a dumbfounded state unable to articulate your needs

starYou're at the end of your rope! You feel so lost with how to find a way through and know that unless you do your marriage could end

starYou fear having conversations with your manager, and so you avoid them, which is leading to poor performance reviews

starYou're lashing out at your interns and staff, creating an environment that breeds inefficiency

star You're being told you're too aggressive and difficult to work with and you don't know what to do about it

 

 

You really just want someone to take you by the hand and share with you how to speak to your husband so he doesn't get  angry and stop talking to you for a day or how to have a difficult conversation with your employer about the way you're being treated. You want to know how to stop fighting with your kids and how to create community in your business. You want to ask questions like how do I stop overanalyzing everything and beating myself up and get an answer that is helpful.  

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Oh, hi ... that's me! I'm Cynthia, and my team and I are here to help you express yourself in your marriage, work through the fear of  asking for what you need at work, and help you become less reactive with your employees and the ones you love. 

Imagine what you’re going to feel like once you’ve figured out how to express your wants and needs consciously, clearly, and concisely.

Imagine how it will feel to ask your partner for what you need without worrying about his or her reaction. 

What would your day-to-day look like if you were able to speak without anxiety in a group setting at work?

Just think of what your friendships, partnerships, love life, and career could look like if you communicated differently within them. 

What could communicating intentionally bring into your life?

starFreedom: Being able to sit with your partner and not worry about what you should or shouldn't say. 

starTime: Having less back and forth at work, because you're able to be concise and talk to what's necessary. 

starConfidence: Setting boundaries that others respect and follow through on. 

starConnection: Having more intimate and meaningful conversations.

starClarity: Knowing you're upset and why you're upset and then sharing it in a way the other person can hear. 

starNo regrets: No longer holding back or letting fear dictate your life choices.

Whether you want to cultivate more connection with your partner or your children, share clearly and directly in your work environment, no longer hold back what's bothering you with friends and family, or create more space for more of the good stuff to come in, having a communication practice gives it to you.

Without a training like this you're bound to worry about what you said or didn't say in your relationships, spend most of your time complaining or arguing and ruminating about things happening with work, keep inside what you really want to say to those closest to you because you're afraid it's silly, and hold back so much of what's true for you in your relationships that regrets start piling up. 

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The Intentional Communication Training Program is like no other program you've experienced before.

Many of the students we work with say to us, "why did I wait so long to do this?"

We've had multiple students not commit for one reason or another and then come back three years later on the verge of divorce, no longer speaking to their children, and some have lost their jobs due to an inability to connect with their colleagues. 

If they would have listened to their intuition and joined the training years before, they could have worked through these difficulties and learned practices to help them through these moments. 

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Your life before the Intentional Communication Training Program

Frustrated by the way you're interacting with those you love and those you don't even know. And frustrated that you can't change this negative communication loop

Struggling to keep your emotions in check with your children and at work, unable to not take things personally, get defensive, lash out, shut down, or get passive aggressive

Feeling numb. Things your partner says or does doesn't bother you anymore, because you've chosen to ignore them, not feel them, and move on

Disconnected from your partner, friends, colleagues, but also yourself. Wondering where you've gone all these years and if it's possible to find your voice again

Anxious and fearful to have conversations with your partner, kids, sister, brother, and general worry about life. The world doesn't feel like such a friendly place

A lot of negative loops in your mind. Self judgment and judging others over where you are in life, career, relationships

Feel unappreciated at home, misunderstood at work, invisible in your interactions with family. Very indecisive in most situations- where the needs of your colleagues, partner, friends come before your own

Avoid conflict with your partner, children, colleagues at all costs. Scared to have difficult conversations

Your life after the Intentional Communication Training Program

Calm and relaxed conversations with your partner. No longer worried about what to say and how to say it

Confident in expressing your wants and needs clearly and concisely at home and at work so the other person or group can hear it

No longer gripped by the fear of expressing yourself and your needs to your family and supervisors

More connection and intimacy in your personal relationships

More clear on your wants and needs within interactions at work

You know how to take care of yourself and navigate confrontation with your children, partner, or siblings

More joyful and intentional with your family and friends

More self-compassion and less self- evaluation and judgment. Less doubt and mental chatter that paralyzes you with fear and worry

No longer gossiping about others at work or comparing yourself to others success

See difficult conversations as essential conversations with your partner

Capable of getting your needs met and setting and sticking to boundaries at home and at work

Much more space in the body and mind, opening you up to more possibility

You can do The Intentional Communication Training Program from home, from anywhere in the world.

You can complete the course lessons from the comfort of your couch or kitchen table, as long as you have an Internet connection! The entire program is completely digital so you can access it from anywhere through our private course portal. And you'll never miss a beat: you can go at your own pace and do the lessons on your schedule.

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What's Included in the Intentional Communication Training Program

Training Modules

Foundation

Lesson 01: What is Intentional Communication: Here you learn what Intentional Communication is and its benefits.

Lesson 02: Guidelines of Intentional Communication: In this lesson you learn the guiding principles of Intentional Communication and begin to apply these guidelines to your interactions.

Lesson 03: The Practice of Intentional Communication: Here you get an overview of the practice. You learn what each part does individually and then how it fits into the whole.

Practice

Lesson 04: Meditation: You'll learn the practice of meditation and begin practicing meditations specific for enhancing communication. By the end of lesson 04 you will have a weekly, if not daily, meditation practice. Meditations are then prescribed for you throughout the training depending on what's coming up for you.

Lesson 05: Listen to Yourself: Here you'll begin to listen to your body and language. By the end of this lesson you will have changed your relationship to your negative self-talk and know how to quiet the mental chatter and let go of the self judgment and evaluation.

Lesson 06: Listen to Others: In this lesson you learn how to listen to others. By the end you'll be more present in your interactions, able to connect with those who disagree with you or have different opinions, and know how to hold space for others without fixing or giving advice.

Lesson 07: Speak Consciously, Clearly, and Concisely: This is all about expressing yourself in a way that others can hear you. By the end of this lesson you'll be clear on what you need within conversations and how to ask for what you need without worrying about the other person's reaction. You'll start seeing how valuable and necessary your words are and taking empowered action to get your needs met.

Lesson 08: Silence: Learning how to incorporate silence into your conversations is what you'll do in this lesson. By the end, you'll be using silence to create more connection, intimacy, and to access yourself in difficult moments.

Lesson 09: Difficult Conversations: This is all about having difficult conversations. You'll learn the formulas for different types of conversations, how to move through the fear of having them, what to do before, during,and after them, and by the end you'll be seeing difficult conversations as essential to your well-being and that of others as well.

Lesson 10: Putting it All Together: By this point the practice will have already come together for you and you'll be implementing it; however, this lesson puts it all together in a very practical way so you can see all the pieces working together.

There are two weeks per step in the practice. The first week is for learning and the second is for implementation. So new content is released every two weeks

This training is very intentionally designed to help you create new patterns of communicating. The 14 weeks gives us the time needed to unlearn past habits and form new ones.

When you enroll you get immediate access to the welcome material + Lesson 01.

 

Foundation

Lesson 01: What is Intentional Communication: Here you learn what Intentional Communication is and its benefits.

Lesson 02: Guidelines of Intentional Communication: In this lesson you learn the guiding principles of Intentional Communication and begin to apply these guidelines to your interactions.

Lesson 03: The Practice of Intentional Communication: Here you get an overview of the practice. You learn what each part does individually and then how it fits into the whole.

Practice

Lesson 04: Meditation: You'll learn the practice of meditation and begin practicing meditations specific for enhancing communication. By the end of lesson 04 you will have a weekly, if not daily, meditation practice. Meditations are then prescribed for you throughout the training depending on what's coming up for you.

Lesson 05: Listen to Yourself: Here you'll begin to listen to your body and language. By the end of this lesson you will have changed your relationship to your negative self-talk and know how to quiet the mental chatter and let go of the self judgment and evaluation.

Lesson 06: Listen to Others: In this lesson you learn how to listen to others. By the end you'll be more present in your interactions, able to connect with those who disagree with you or have different opinions, and know how to hold space for others without fixing or giving advice.

Lesson 07: Speak Consciously, Clearly, and Concisely: This is all about expressing yourself in a way that others can hear you. By the end of this lesson you'll be clear on what you need within conversations and how to ask for what you need without worrying about the other person's reaction. You'll start seeing how valuable and necessary your words are and taking empowered action to get your needs met.

Lesson 08: Silence: Learning how to incorporate silence into your conversations is what you'll do in this lesson. By the end, you'll be using silence to create more connection, intimacy, and to access yourself in difficult moments.

Lesson 09: Difficult Conversations: This is all about having difficult conversations. You'll learn the formulas for different types of conversations, how to move through the fear of having them, what to do before, during,and after them, and by the end you'll be seeing difficult conversations as essential to your well-being and that of others as well.

Lesson 10: Putting it All Together: By this point the practice will have already come together for you and you'll be implementing it; however, this lesson puts it all together in a very practical way so you can see all the pieces working together.

There are two weeks per step in the practice. The first week is for learning and the second is for implementation. So new content is released every two weeks

This training is very intentionally designed to help you create new patterns of communicating. The 14 weeks gives us the time needed to unlearn past habits and form new ones.

When you enroll you get immediate access to the welcome material + Lesson 01.

Weekly Group Coaching Call with Your Instructor

 

Each week, we have group coaching calls together. This is where we discuss the lessons, challenges, celebrations, your experience with the practice, and learn from one another.

 

Monthly Group Coaching Call with Cynthia 

 

Each month there is a group coaching call with Cynthia where you will get personalized feedback and practice and guidance from her directly.

 
 

Feedback, Review of your Assignments

 
 

Each week, you can submit your work for personalized feedback by your instructor. This is the best way to get personal feedback on the exercises.

 

4 1:1 Milestone Calls with your Intentional Communication Instructor

 
 

Starting after Lesson 03, there are four 1:1 sessions throughout the training. This is where we go deep into what's coming up for you specifically, so you get the practices and techniques you need.

 

Private Student Community Group

 

Connect with other students within the training, ask questions, share intentions and celebrations, and get the support you need.

 

Reading Material + Workbook

 

Included is the required reading + Cynthia's bestselling books, How to Communicate like a Buddhist, Talk to Yourself like a Buddhist, and How to Meditate like a Buddhist. You'll also receive the Intentional Communication Training Workbook.

 

Weekly Group Coaching Call with Your Instructor

Each week, we have group coaching calls together. This is where we discuss the lessons, challenges, celebrations, your experience with the practice, and learn from one another.

Monthly Group Coaching Call with Cynthia 

Each month there is a group coaching call where you get personalized feedback and guidance from Cynthia.

Feedback, Review of your Assignments

Each week, you can submit your work for personalized feedback by one of our instructors. This is the best way to get personal feedback on the exercises.

4 1:1 Milestone Calls with Your Intentional Communication Instructor

Starting after Lesson 03, there are four 1:1 sessions throughout the training. This is where we go deep into what's coming up for you specifically, so you get the practices and techniques you need.

Private Student Community Group

Connect with other students within the training, ask questions, share intentions and celebrations, and get the support you need.

Reading Material + Workbook

Included is the required reading + Cynthia's bestselling books, How to Communicate like a Buddhist, Talk to Yourself like a Buddhist, and How to Meditate like a Buddhist. You'll also receive the Intentional Communication Training Workbook.

The Investment

Monthly Payment Plan

star 14 Weeks Access to the Intentional Communication Training Program

star Weekly Group Coaching Calls with Your Instructor

star Monthly Group Coaching Call with Cynthia

star Weekly Review of Your Work

star1:1 Milestone Calls with Your Instructor

starAccess to all of the Training, Reading material, 25+ Meditations Specific to Communication, Exercises, Worksheets, Practices, Resources and Go to phrases

starAccess to the private community group

starFour months after the training check in with your instructor 

10 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF $600

 
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star14 Weeks Access to the Intentional Communication Training Program

star Weekly Group Coaching Calls with Your Instructor

starMonthly Group Coaching Call with Cynthia 

star Weekly Review of Your Work

star1:1 Milestone Calls Your Instructor

starAccess to all of the Training, Reading material, 25+ Meditations Specific to Communication, Exercises, Worksheets, Practices, Resources and Go to phrases

starAccess to the private community group

starFour months after the training check in with your instructor

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starIntroduction to Meditation and Mindfulness Workshop

starHow to Work with Difficult Emotions Workshop

starMeditation series for Working with Difficult Conversations

star60 Minute 1:1 Call with Your Intentional Communication Instructor

ONE PAYMENT OF $5,500

 
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Who is this for?

starYou are ready to improve your relationship with partners, children, family, co-workers, friends, etc

starYou want to become less reactive with your partner and children, more in control of you words at work, and confident in navigating difficult interactions in your most important relationships with ease

starYou are committed to success. If you fall down, you learn from it and keep going

starYou take complete and total personal responsibility for your results. No coach or course is going to hand you results, you are solely responsible for how you use these incredible tools

 

Who is this for?

starYou are ready to improve your relationship with partners, children, family, co-workers, friends, etc

starYou want to become less reactive with your partner and children, more in control of you words at work, and confident in navigating difficult interactions in your most important relationships with ease.

starYou are committed to success. If you fall down, you learn from it and keep going.

starYou take complete and total personal responsibility for your results. No coach or course is going to hand you results, you are solely responsible for how you use these incredible tools.

Who this is NOT for?

starYou blame circumstances and find excuses for why you can't do something

starYou don't believe you have any communication issues

starYou are looking for a quick fix. Everything takes time, especially for it to really start working its magic

starYou have a bad attitude and think you already know everything even though this is something you're never tried before

 

Who this is NOT for?

starYou blame circumstances and find excuses for why you can't do something.

starYou don't believe you have any communication issues

starYou are looking for a quick fix. Everything takes time, especially for it to really start working its magic.

starYou have a bad attitude and think you already know everything even though this is something you're never tried before.

You have two choices ...

 

STAY STUCK

You can stay on the struggle bus, trying to figure everything out on your own with no guidance, training or support. Hoping and praying that it will work.

REACH YOUR GOALS

You can just get the proven step by step system that myself and THOUSANDS of others before you have used to connect more with their partners and children, express themselves and be heard at work, and let go of the self judgement and anxiety and overwhelm.

Think about where you want to be six months from now. Heck, think of where you want to be three weeks from now. Do you have a step-by-step plan on how to get there?

Without a plan your most precious relationships will continue to feel strained and on the verge of falling apart; your fear of expressing yourself at work will continue and keep you feeling stuck, undervalued and unappreciated.

If you’re ready to stop struggling, then the Intentional Communication Training Program is going to be the online training that changes everything for you.

Your chance to express yourself and be heard starts now.

 

YOU MIGHT BE THINKING

 

"I don’t have enough time"

Having time to commit to this training is definitely important. What if you substituted time for why you’re ready for the training? You’re saying then that you don’t have enough time to improve your marriage, move up in your career, reconnect with your children, or start a new relationship on the right foot. All that is required to make this easy is for you to adjust your priorities for the next 14 weeks.

"I don’t think I can do it."

I know what it’s like to think you can’t do it. And that thought of, "what if it works for everyone else and doesn’t work for me?" But I’m telling you right now, we won’t let that happen! Throughout this training you’re going to build your confidence and we’re with you every step of the way. You aren’t alone in this training.

I've worked with hundreds of people to help them become more intimate with their partners, be taken seriously at work, heard within their families, and respected by their colleagues and employees.

Those listed here are just a handful of them. Please remember, they all worked very hard to become successful and your results will vary depending on your commitment to the work.

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I've worked with hundreds of people to help them become more intimate with their partners, be taken seriously at work, heard within their families, and respected by their colleagues and employees.

These are just a handful of them. Please remember, they all worked very hard to become successful and your results will vary depending on your commitment to the work.

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Mickey

 

"I struggled with over-reactivity and over-sensitivity in my closest relationships which made me feel like I had no control over myself. Using the tools and coaching from this course helped me shift from feeling like a petulant child to feeling like a wise adult in my most challenging personal relationships."

 

"This powerful program has uprooted my negative self-talk. I am no longer trapped by judgment and toxic shame. The program has taught me how to tame my mind with self-compassion and honesty. I have stopped lying about my needs and have developed the courage to ask for help."

 

Franzie

 

Cheyenne

 

"Working with Cynthia changed my life. I'm more confident, proud, and calm because of what I know now, and I feel more free not only in my ability to express myself but in creating a space where others feel safe to do the same."

 

Mickey

"I struggled with over-reactivity and over-sensitivity in my closest relationships which made me feel like I had no control over myself. Using the tools and coaching from this course helped me shift from feeling like a petulant child to feeling like a wise adult in my most challenging personal relationships."

Franzie

"This powerful program has uprooted my negative self-talk. I am no longer trapped by judgment and toxic shame. The program has taught me how to tame my mind with self-compassion and honesty. I have stopped lying about my needs and have developed the courage to ask for help."

Cheyenne

"Working with Cynthia changed my life. I'm more confident, proud, and calm because of what I know now, and I feel more free not only in my ability to express myself but in creating a space where others feel safe to do the same."

"Before this course I was having a hard time communicating with people who were important to me. Cynthia's class taught me tools and techniques to overcome those pitfalls. I learned a more preferable style of communication and was able to immediately put it into practice."

 

Madeline

 
 
 
 
 
 

Michelle

 

"I am more confident in my interactions. I swear less. I have less judgment if any at all. I am more present in my conversations. I am more patient and tolerant of others. I think more before I speak. I am more silent in conversations and allow others to finish speaking before I talk. I am in a better mood when I speak to people."

 

"This course has been life changing. I learned how to listen to my inner voice and identify the emotions that I was experiencing that I never before could identify. Now there may be difficult conversations but I am able to negotiate through them much better and am not left with that horrible feeling inside that used to linger on and on."

 

Danielle

 

Rianna

 

"Amazingly, today I can speak to people from all walks of life without the gripping fear that used to overwhelm me. This experience has totally changed my life. And for that Cynthia, I am forever grateful."

 

It's time to stop arguing with those you love, feeling unheard at work, and scared of confrontation.

We'll coach you through exactly how to approach this journey and support you the whole way..

You have two choices ...

STAY STUCK

You can stay on the struggle bus, trying to figure everything out on your own with no guidance, training or support. Hoping and praying that it will work.

REACH YOUR GOALS

You can just get the proven step by step system that myself and THOUSANDS of others before you have used to connect more with their partners and children, express themselves and be heard at work, and let go of the self judgement and anxiety and overwhelm.

Think about where you want to be six months from now. Heck, think of where you want to be three weeks from now. Do you have a step-by-step plan on how to get there?

Without a plan your most precious relationships will continue to feel strained and on the verge of falling apart; your fear of expressing yourself at work will continue and keep you feeling stuck, undervalued and unappreciated.

If you’re ready to stop struggling, then the Intentional Communication Training Program is going to be the online training that changes everything for you.

Your chance to express yourself and be heard starts now.

 

Hi, I'm Cynthia!

I help people enhance their lives and relationships by teaching them how to speak to themselves, others, and their environment in a kind, honest, and helpful way.

The whole narrative of my life shifted when Mauricio (Mau) my first love, my best friend, the person who knew me the best in the world passed away unexpectedly in 2011.

The minute it happened, my life changed forever.

I was a blank canvas, empty.

In March 2011, I sat on the floor of my apartment in New York City, fumbling for my tissues. For months all I could do was lay or sit on my floor, cry, and blow out the pain into tissues or (most of the time) toilet paper. There I was, on my floor, when I realized nobody could come and take this suffering away. If I was going to find a way to enjoy being in the world, it was up to me to make it happen.

Out of my loss came this need, desire, to feel good, to feel cared for. But no matter how much other people tried to nurture me, they couldn’t.

Little-by-little, I realized that the only person who could take care of me, make me a priority, make me feel good, was me. I had to undo alot of what I had been taught and if I wanted to change the way I lived in the world I was going to have to change the way I interacted with it. This meant shifting the way I interacted with myself, others, and in turn the world.

I had to learn how to communicate differently to lead a more empowered life.

Now, what I want to do is give all of you the same opportunity. I want to help you learn how to take care of who you are by paying attention to how you speak in your career, relationships, life! Because you my friend deserve it.

I know the feeling of being exhausted by interactions and constantly feeling like you're saying the wrong thing and then getting stuck in your head for days about it. So if you're ready to start having the types of interactions you desire, you're in the right place.

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