Speak your truth even if you're scared of the reaction.
I know the feeling of being exhausted by interactions and constantly feeling like you're saying the wrong thing and then getting stuck in your head for days about it.
Or starting to express yourself and then quickly backtracking on what you were saying, giving over your opinion for someone else's.
See, I used to be extremely passive aggressive, I'd shut down at any sign of confrontation or difficult conversation. I had a hard time expressing myself so that others could hear me and it felt like anytime I did get the courage to say something, I said it in the wrong way, that would lead to an argument and nothing would get resolved. Then weeks later the same conversation would come around leading to the same cycle and pattern.
There was a lot of self evaluation and judgment that kept me comparing myself to others and gave way to a lot of doubt and insecurity and anxiety in my most important relationships.
All of this was how I lived day-in-day-out for 30+ years until my whole world changed with one phone call.
The whole narrative of my life shifted when Mauricio (Mau) my first love, my best friend, the person who knew me the best in the world passed away unexpectedly in 2011.
The minute it happened, my life changed forever.
I was a blank canvas, empty.
In March 2011, I sat on the floor of my apartment in New York City, fumbling for my tissues. For months all I could do was lay or sit on my floor, cry, and blow out the pain into tissues or (most of the time) toilet paper. There I was, on my floor, when I realized nobody could come and take this suffering away. If I was going to find a way to enjoy being in the world, it was up to me to make it happen.
Out of my loss came this need, desire, to feel good, to feel cared for. But no matter how much other people tried to nurture me, they couldn’t.
Little-by-little, I realized that the only person who could take care of me, make me a priority, make me feel good, was me. I had to undo alot of what I had been taught and if I wanted to change the way I lived in the world I was going to have to change the way I interacted with it. This meant shifting the way I interacted with myself, others, and in turn the world.
If I wanted to feel more ease and peace within my relationships, it was up to me to figure out how to make that happen.
And I did.
And this is what I want to share with you.
For the last six years I've used a proprietary process called theKane Intentional Communication™ Practice that helps high achieving individuals speak their truth, better control their emotions, and have clear decision making.
I started sharing this practice to help others suffer less. I've been where you are and I know what it's like to struggle with expressing yourself, being passive aggressive, judgmental, constantly reacting and exaggerating— beating yourself up and wanting more peace and ease.
I spent thirty years not asking for what I needed, constantly feeling like what I had to say wasn't valuable or necessary and that the other person's opinion and voice mattered more than my own.
It took me a long time to figure this all out and I don't want you to do it alone.
Maybe the thought of showing up authentically in your life and business relationships was something you'd do "in the future"...and suddenly, you have to do it now.
It's been made painfully clear that you need to find ways to have more peaceful interactions at home and at work for you to lessen the stress, anxiety, and overwhelm.
You no longer have the luxury of waiting.
Our students are faced with stressors day in and day out and they're wanting to make their lives and relationships easier right now - because so many are experiencing the same fight over and over again, on the verge of potential divorce, seeing their opinions at work being glossed over and their suggestions not valued.
I want to make sure that you not only start to feel more confident in your interactions, but that you create more calm and peace within your romantic, work, and family relationships right now as well.
- You're a high achieving person who wants to show up authentically in your most important relationships.
- You're a high performer who has been experiencing overwhelm in your most important relationships.
- You don't want to be scared of communication anymore.
- You want to be articulate and communicate in a kind, calm and helpful way.
- You want to let go of your childlike patterns.
- You want to know how you feel and what you want and need and know how to express it so it's heard.
- You want to be able to listen even when you're angry, confused or frustrated.
Ready to move out of the overwhelm so you can create the relationships you crave?
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If you’re constantly involved in a communication disconnect or crisis— the problem is most likely you.
Meet your guide,
For the past six years, I’ve been helping thousands of high achieving individuals experience more peace so that they can show up authentically in their most important relationships. I am the bestselling author of How to Communicate like a Buddhist, Talk to Yourself like a Buddhist, and How to Meditate like a Buddhist, and was named one of Yahoo’s top ten communication coaches to watch in 2021. I have been featured in the Washington Post, The Chicago Tribune, Spirituality & Health, Authority Magazine, Women’s Day Magazine, SELF Magazine, and more.
I am the CEO of the Kane Intentional Communication™ Institute, LLC, which is the leading communication institute for high achieving individuals that provides a holistic approach to effective communication.
This past year you may have experienced more overwhelm in your most important relationships than ever before. This stress, worry, doubt, and anxiety has possibly lead to sleepless nights, shutting down, getting passive aggressive, lashing out or not feeling like you're able to express yourself for fear of what the reaction will be. It has been difficult to stand in your power, feel confident in decision making, and not be controlled by your emotions.
I created this 3.5 hour event because I want to show you how it’s possible to shift out of the overwhelm and into confidence as you juggle life and business relationships.
I want to give you the keys you need to start communicating without compromising who you are in your most important relationships so you can create relationships focused on trust, respect, and appreciation.
If you want to experience a fraction of our student results you should join Communicate Without Compromise.
is for you if:
- You feel that people don't listen to you or value what you have to say
- You're angry and upset with yourself, because you can't stop being passive aggressive or shutting down and lashing out
- You've thought about leaving your job because you can't handle the panic attacks before meetings
- You're tired of having the same conversations again and again and nothing gets resolved
- You no longer know what you want or need and are having a hard time trusting yourself
- You've read all the books, gone to therapy, and know you need outside help specifically for communication
With the right communication you can start experiencing more calm and peace so that you can show up authentically in your most important relationships.
What You'll Learn at Communicate Without Compromise
3 mistakes that you are likely making that have you feeling unseen and unheard
A powerful reframe and mindset shift that will move you from thinking communication is hard and impossible to change to making it do-able
The 3 step process for creating your communication vision plan
THURSDAY, JUNE 24TH 2021
11:00 am - 2:30 pm EST
HIGH-CONTENT VIRTUAL WORKSHOP | COMMUNICATION MAKEOVERS | OPEN Q&A
INVESTMENT: ONLY $49
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